
Trains, planes, and the romance problem
The luxury trains are real and they are genuinely lovely, and they are also a different holiday from the one most people think they are booking. A train is a fixed route on a fixed clock with a fixed group. You see a great deal and you decide almost nothing. Some travellers love precisely that. Others work out on the third morning that they cannot stay anywhere an extra night.
Domestic flights are the unromantic answer and usually the right one for a long hop — north to south, or anything that would otherwise be a whole day in a car for no reward at the end of it.
An ordinary train is worth one leg of a trip, in a good class, on a scenic stretch, taken as an experience rather than as transport.
Most well-built journeys use all three. The mistake is choosing one of them on principle and then arranging India around it.





